"Am not what happened to me, I am what I choose to become"     As the saying goes " You are not a product of your circumstance, but a product of your decisions ". Being good is not enough, aiming for the best should be the priority.      For once I always look forward to new challenges. Finding someone good and try to be better, push myself to the limit, all night and day trying to figure out what he or she does differently. Make sure am up early, finish up the house chores and looking forward with hope that today might be the day.      Little did I know that I set out with the wrong mind frame, the thought of being second fiddle to someone, the thought of being a liability when I failed to reach my goal. Always feeling inferior in the face of failure, from primaries to the institutional level, I lived with this idea.     A few years back, I met few friends from my high school, whom I always want to try and get one

    An American actor and producer Charlie Peckham day  once said: " You do not have to be fearless, just don't let fear stop you". It's no new thing that victories these days are measured by the ratio of your achievement to your mistakes.  It's  a norm when your success outweighs your failure, people tend to call you a victor.  Perhaps, being a victor doesn't make you immune to failure, it simply means you respond and learn from your past fall, you keep saying to yourself, its not over until i win. What do you think you did different, or were you by chance lucky?, here are 7 things you might have done; Dare to Dream... GOOD LISTENER - Being good is not enough if other people's view are non of your concern. All successful individual share this trait, from listening to other people's idea, you build an empire of yours. So may be you might just have prey on their negligence to build theirs. DECISION MAKING - One thing is to be sure, a

Sometimes you are unsatisfied with your life, while many dreams of living it... A child on a farm sees a plane fly overhead and dreams of flying... But a pilot on the plane sees the farmhouse and dream of home... That's life!!, enjoy yours... If wealth is the secret to happiness, then the rich not the poor kids should be dancing on the streets... If power ensures security, then officials should walk unguarded... Only those who live simply, sleep soundly... All good will come back to you...  Stay Humble!!!...                                                    Dr. Ben Carson feel free to share your experience with us... comment below...